Dan Miller, a life coach, has written a book not about finding a new job, but about discovering what you are going to “be.” According to Miller, failing to make that fundamental discovery is why so many people find themselves in jobs they hate. His book is to help lead you to the vocation you will love.
Motivation for reading:
This book has been included on several must-read career book lists, but it wasn’t until Sarah Ingle mentioned it in her post things I wish I'd been told in college that I decided to read this book. She wrote:
I wish someone had made me read 48 Days To The Work You Love. I know I talk about this book all the time, but it was the first thing I ever read that actually helped point me in a direction. I think every college freshman or sophomore should be REQUIRED to read something like this before they waste thousands of dollars on classes that are useless and have no direction.If you are a regular reader of this blog, you may have noticed I’ve been feeling trapped in my career as an accounting manager for some time now. I’ve worked in accounting for 25 years and would like to do something more fulfilling in the next stage of my life. I was hoping this book would provide some insight.
My thoughts:
This book is not a step-by-step how-to-guide to finding a new career in 48 days; instead it is a book filled with anecdotes and stories from Miller’s coaching practice, the bible and quotations from other books. Each chapter does end with a list of questions designed to get you thinking about your own life and its purpose. Overall, I thought the book was a bit repetitive. I would have preferred a more logically organized step-by-step book, but reading it was not an entire waste I came away with several invaluable insights. Here is a sampling:
Not only know yourself, but know what is changeless about you:
The power of knowing yourself acts as a compass through change. Popular writer Steven Covey says the only way we can handle change is to know what is changeless about ourselves. You need that changeless core, knowing how God has uniquely gifted you and what you value. With that knowledge you can forge through change with clear direction and unshakeable purpose. (Pg. 31)
On having action plans and setting goals:
A plan of action will separate you from 97% of the people you meet. Everyone has dreams, but very few ever turn those into goals. The difference between a dream and a goal is that a goal is a dream with a timeframe of action attached. (Pg. 48)
Only 8% of the general population can identify goals and only about 3% ever actually write them down. (Pg. 56)
Goals are not written in concrete terms but certainly give you a starting point and a destination. The important thing is you are working on your goals; your life has meaning only when you are working towards goals through with your achieve meaning. After all, success is the progressive realization of worthwhile goals. (Pg. 57)
Indecision is the greatest thief of opportunity:
A recent Harvard Business School Study asked, “What are the top characteristics of high achievers?” At the very top of the list, one characteristic stood out: speed of implementation – having the ability to act quickly. Eighty percent of decisions should be made immediately. (Pg. 55)
When confronted with a decision Dan and his wife allow a 2-week maximum for arriving at a decision. Here is their approach to the process:
1. State the problem
2. Get the advice and opinions of others
3. List alternatives
4. Choose the best alternative
5. Act
Look for what you love first:
Looking for the best opportunities in career and jobs often leads to disillusionment and frustration. Look for what you love first. Then you will have the confidence and enthusiasm to find success in places others overlook. (Pg. 188)
I enjoyed the chapter on entrepreneurship. It contained one of the best “Do you have what it takes to be an entrepreneur questionnaire” I’ve seen. It is extensive – at 18 questions and does not include your typical are you a risk taker type question.
The chapter on interviewing pointed out how important it is to appear energetic and enthusiastic during the interview process.
Bottom line:
I may not have determined what my next career will be, but I did gain valuable insights from reading this book. I recommend it to anyone just starting out or searching for a new vocation with this caveat - Miller writes this book from a Christian point of view. If this will bother you, you may want to skip this book.
What is the best career book you’ve ever read?
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Thanks for the recommendation; I'll download it to my Kindle tonight.
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ReplyDeleteI am always happy to hear I've inspired someone to read a book. If you do read it be sure to stop back in and let us know what you think.
Thanks for the good suggestion. I have a niece who's a freshman in college - sounds like a good time to give it to her.
ReplyDeleteMaybe it will help you both with current job - perhaps find ways to make it fit you better - as well as for the future.
I love Stephen Covey's 7 Habits and this looks helpful. I didnt make it quite as long in my accounting career as you before deciding that I needed a change. I need to figure out what my career path will be once my youngest starts school, though I really enjoy being home.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing with #SmallVictoriesSunday and hope you will link up 3 posts with us again next week!
Sounds like a good read. I'm going to share it with my daughter. She's just completing her first year in the workplace and will definitely find this helpful. Thanks for sharing the info!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing about this book. I'm going to read it and recommend it to our young adult sons. Visiting from SITS Sharefet.
ReplyDeleteThanks for suggesting this book! Always looking for good business reads. The two best career books I've read are Brag! The Art of Tooting Your Horn Without Blowing It by Peggy Klaus and The Power of Positive Confrontation: The Skills You Need to Know to Handle Conflicts at Work, at Home and in Life by Barbara Pachter.
ReplyDeleteI've thought the same thing for years. American school do a lousy job of helping students select the proper major which results in lost time and money as they change and re-change their major. And I know so many people who have a degree in one thing, but do something altogether different, which is a stupid waste, particularly with the high cost of education. I'll keep a lookout for this book. #SITSSharefest
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this book. I was not familiar with it, but agree we should all read something like this and examine ourselves before choosing a major at school and getting into a career. I really like the Stephen Covey thought about knowing what is changeless in you. I may read this even though at age 64 I am finally doing what I love. I have adult children who may benefit.
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